JANUARY 26, 2025
Strategy 28:
“The Smoking Gun”
Be prepared to
talk about the “Weapon”
When it comes to parole suitability, some of the most difficult—but crucial—moments involve direct discussion of the life crime and the tools of violence associated with it. Whether it was a gun, a knife, a rope, or bare hands, the Board will expect a meaningful explanation of how and why the “weapon” became part of your decision-making. This conversation can be painful, but avoiding it may signal denial or lack of insight.
Strategy 28 – “The Smoking Gun” urges individuals to prepare emotionally, mentally, and spiritually to discuss the literal or symbolic weapon used in the life crime. Many people struggle to talk about the moment of violence, especially if it involved premeditation or graphic harm. This strategy explains that while it’s natural to feel shame or discomfort, failing to address the weapon—or deflecting responsibility—can undermine credibility. Facing this part of your history directly is a powerful act of accountability and a step toward healing.
Notes
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The “weapon” isn’t just a physical object—it’s a symbol of the choices, anger, or distorted thinking behind the act.
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The panel may ask specific questions about how the weapon was obtained, why it was used, or what mindset you were in at the time.
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Saying “I don’t remember” or avoiding this topic can raise red flags.
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Be honest and take responsibility, even when it’s uncomfortable.
Recap & Takeaways
Being able to talk about the “weapon” shows that you’re no longer hiding from the truth. It demonstrates maturity, accountability, and a willingness to confront the most difficult parts of your past. The Board is not just checking off facts—they’re looking for emotional readiness to own your actions. Strategy 28 reminds us that healing starts where denial ends. By facing the weapon, you reclaim your story and the power to change it.
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